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Friday, April 15, 2011

Creepy Stalker Messages! Violating.


Back Story: (Which I realize is long, I'm sorry. I know I usually try to post short.)

So this kid starts following me around in the morning. He'd just sit next to me and talk and talk and talk, and I was okay with it at first. Yes, he creeped me out a little bit but I give everyone a fair chance. Then he started telling me things I didn't want to hear- in conversation form where he'd go back and forth between 2 characters (and this is pretty much verbatim):

His Dad: "Come on son, it's time for bed."
Him: "Daddy, why do we have to sleep in the same bed?"
His Dad: "I get lonely ever since your mother died (she died when he was 4) and I don't want to sleep by myself."
Him: "Okay, Dad......Dad! Why do we have to spoon?!"
And then he starts talking about how his dad had a hard on before I made him stop talking. I'm a really open person, I love psychology and I love to get to know people and their stories but I had just met this kid TWO days earlier. So no, I do not want to hear it.

UNcomfortable.

The next day he kept offering to buy me things. I said no. But he persisted because he had $2 and since I had said I was going to go get a Diet Coke he was going to buy me one. I said no, again. Then he walks off and I take that as an escape opportunity. I went to the little food area we have in our college cafeteria and bought myself a Diet Coke. Then he comes back holding a Diet Coke, sees that I have just bought myself a Diet Coke, and put down the left over money he had from buying the Diet Coke and runs off.

That night he found my on facebook and started messaging me over and over again. I finally sent him a message telling him to leave me alone.

UNcomfortable.

The next day, against my will, he walks me to class. After the class had started I had to pee so I walked out into the hall to go to the bathroom and he comes running down the hallway saying "Oh yeah, I forgot something." and gave me a huge hug...By now I'm totally creeped out by this kid and I do NOT want him touching me. I felt violated.
Then when I get out of class he's standing there waiting for me, it scared the shit out of me. He said he's walk me to my next class and I said "That's okay. I've gotta go to the bathroom." and then I see the look on his face and I add "Don't wait for me." because I just KNEW that's what he was thinking. Then I walked into the bathroom and hid out for at least 5 minutes and when I come back out- THERE HE IS. Waiting for me outside the bathroom.

UNcomfortable.

So I switch buildings in the morning to get rid of him. It works for a couple of days. But one day I've got my head down on my back pack with my eyes shut (college students seem to get sleep where EVER they can take it, lol. My campus is littered with random people taking naps between classes.) But yeah, so I'm sitting there trying to sleep and I hear this "Hey..." Fucking scared the shit out of me. I looked up and there he was! He had come looking for me. He even admitted it.

UNcomfortable.

And the next day he comes up to me and starts showing me all these drawings he had done on paper towels, trying to impress me. I was thinking "WHAT THE FUCK? LMAO" But I didn't even ask cuz by now I know this kid is weird.

Later that day I unblock him on facebook and send him a message telling him that he HAS to leave me alone and not to message me back (you can't reblock anyone for 48 hours after you've unblocked them.)

Note: He did other things to creep me out too, other things to violate me, but I don't want to get into them in this post. It would be ranting.

Messages:



Don't ever come to YOU?! Are you fucking crazy. YOU'RE the one who wouldn't leave me alone. Asshole. He goes from infatuated to just plain rude.


You had thought me a better girl than to find "I have a perverted imagination" followed with "I want to hug and kiss you" suggestive? Fuckfuckfuck you. Fucking rude.
Now I know why he was trying to impress me by drawing on napkins! Lol. I did that painting on cardboard. Idk where he got the napkin part from.


And of course, he's talked to me again since then and I've just "answered" my phone. Or walked away. Or kept reading my book. I just ignore him until he leaves. 
He managed to creep me out and piss me off at the same time and he really thinks I want to be friends with him! We were NEVER friends. You talked to me and I occasionally answered back. 4 conversations is not a friendship.
I feel fucking violated by this kid. I just want him to leave me alone.



4 comments:

unbeautiful said...

Wow. That is uber creepy. If he keeps it up, maybe talk to the college about him. I don't know what to say to help you but something needs to be done about that guy. Maybe buy some pepper spray. Only part of me is joking about that. Be safe.

Dani said...

that is really creepy and sacry hun please tell some1 about him

Cristen Lee said...

Not going to lie, all of this makes ME uncomfortable, makes ME feel violated. Please please please take care of yourself. You need to tell someone. Even if he never shows up again, incase he does (which it sounds like he will) you'll want someone to know the whole story before things get too out of hand.

Be safe!

JANE_DOE said...

thats really scary! ... you know psychology it seems, so im sure you know the potential of people like this. be careful and handle it smoothly. Dont want any meltdowns and intense reactions... heh These messages are crazy. Ive had about 10 crazies in my past, but this guy is sure persistent.